Thursday, January 20, 2011

The 12 Project.

I loved this idea I saw on a blog a bit back. I will take a photo of our whole family once a month (somehow! somewhere!) and then post it with a recap of our month. At the end of the year, I will put a digital scrapbook together for our family. I love the idea of having a year's worth of change documented into a tangible memory. How quickly days pass in the season I find myself in. These sweet days of being in a new country and days at home with precious little people is worth the remembering.

So though it's a bit early, here goes month 1.

January 2011

We began this month getting to enjoy the first "big" snow we have experienced here. It was beautiful and we loved enjoying the view of white covering the ground from 9 floors up! Breathtaking. The kids were so excited and wanted their huge curtains open in the mornings to watch it come down. This is the most snow they have experienced. We got them out to play in it quite a bit. They made snow angels, played football and tried to make snowmen. We all watched as the locals worked with routine to clear the snow from roads, sometimes only using brooms made of straw to push massive piles around.

Schooling the kids was fun as usual. We finished Little House in the Big Woods. They all loved it! The boys couldn't believe all the stories Pa tells about hunting and bears, Felicity loved all the talk of cooking and dresses. They called it the "Laura and Mary Book". Job continued to excel in reading. He started practicing more by reading a short reader to the whole family before bed, it was amazing to hear him sound larger, longer words and simply marvel that my boy's growth means a whole new world is open to him of ideas and lives because of his ability to read well. He could read basic things last year but this year is much more cohesive and he can pick anything up and sound it out for himself in a natural manner. I love that.

We began looking for another tutor as ours will be going back to his hometown. We have bonded so closely with him, it will be hard to not see him each day. Your tutor becomes a person you grow with, simply because of how often you see them. The Lord provided another great teacher and we began meeting with her. She really works hard not to speak any english with us which is a huge help! It's more difficult but we are encouraged that it's going to bring a lot of growth in our language. There's many days we're very encouraged at what we can understand with just 5 months of language. Other days it seems like a mess in my brain or I don't want to focus enough to put it together. And of course, it's a slower road to speaking with ease than to comprehending.

I had some sweet, sweet talks with my sister this month. I haven't bragged enough about her on the blog yet. She's like my other half, my 2nd soul mate. We are 15 months apart and our walks with God weave in and around one another tightly. This has made for a sweetness to our friendship. Go HERE to read her latest post. Prepare to be challenged. In so many ways being away from her is my greatest pain in being here and yet my greatest intimacy and support come from her.

We started counting down until our vacation in February. I made a huge calendar with a pocket for each day and the kids open an envelope to find a prayer for my parents. They will get to hug and kiss those parents of mine in a little over a month. Blessed.

A good month.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Slices of Life.

Here's what could be seen at my kitchen table this morning:


Two sweet boys doing schoolwork. Phin isn't actually in K yet but he's certainly always learning. Lately he likes to listen in on Job's lessons or help us do math or trace letters. I love the way Job's sitting in the above picture. He can usually be seen sliding or tapping or stretching during schoolwork. It's not a bad thing, it's just that the sweet boy's got so much energy. It's what makes him my Job. It just means sometimes we do jumping jacks in between math and phonics :) ....

And here's what could be see in my kitchen on any given Wednesday. Felicity helping May make our weekly applesauce. May only talks to her in the local language and they have so much fun. May is so patient with the kids when they want to "help" and I love that. She slows down enough to enjoy my kids and interact. I'm blessed to have her....





I have realized recently things are normal for me that were not "normal" 6 months ago. Like my kids being totally capable of eating with chopsticks. They actually ask to use them for lunch or anytime we are eating Asian food.

Phin in action:
Here's a snapshot of one of today's lunch dishes. May cooks twice a week for lunch. Today was carrots and also eggplant with spicy green peppers, cooked in a wok with yummy seasonings.


Sunday, January 9, 2011

Conversations with Felicity...


Mom (while putting lotion on my girl): Felicity your skin is so beautiful ... do you know why your skin is such a beautiful color?

Felicity: Yeah, it is beautiful.

Mom: Because your Ethiopian. Do you know what color that beautiful skin is?

Felicity: Brown.

Mom: Yes, because your African! Ethiopians have beautiful skin and eyes and hair...

Felicity: Yeah, I love that color on me.


Saturday, January 1, 2011

Investing in the New Year.

I thought I would pass along some resources that have encouraged me in my desires for 2011.I know my idols well and control is one of them. Doing more and relying on myself. Goals can serve my idol of control (and still appear quite "holy") or I can allow them to be a means used by the Lord to bring about heart change. I can hold them with a loose grip while making them a servant to my walk with Jesus. As I plan and pray I want to remind myself that without God's continual grace I will bear no inside, real heart change (the ultimate goal).

What is man's word? An earthen pot broken with a stroke. What is your own resolve? A blossom, which, with God's care, may come to fruit, but which, left to itself, will fall to the ground with the first wind that moves the bough.

Charles Spurgeon

It can seem overwhelming because there's so many areas I want to see growth that I may avoid any discipline. But I know if I can choose to focus and bear fruit even in ONE area this year that's more than before. Don't feel the need to use everything below but maybe just pick ONE thing to read or listen to. Don't be mistaken into thinking I will be making my goals around each of these resources (though they whet my appetite!) but I hope these things spread a bounty for you to reflect and see the "focus" place Jesus wants for you.




This has been a nugget of a book. It's short so I read it in one evening and it's super helpful because it's not just about doing your schedule. It's about reflecting on where you want to grow and what your most important priorities are and making SURE those are getting the attention they need before other, lesser things. Especially for me this was really huge because we are busier and more easily distracted than other seasons. I needed to see my "roles" in the proper order right now: Child of God, Wife, Mother and Student.

Sermons worth your time:




Be Not Weary in Well Doing (by an incredibly wise woman regarding mothering priorities)

Blog Posts worth dwelling on:





May we press into Him more in 2011!

Christmas at our place.

My view from Christmas morning:



We had a great Christmas. Sorely missed our dear loved ones for sure but are blessed to have them at all in our lives. Missed my mom's amazing pies. That sweet feeling you get being around people who know you so well. Missed hearing cousins laughing with delight as they play together. Mamaw's peaceful and glowing living room during Christmastime. Meal and outfit planning with my sister's. Candlelight service and making gingerbread houses with friends. These things didn't make me sad but overwhelmed me with memories that I never deserved at all. Thank you Jesus for giving us these gifts in years past! You built each of those relationships and memories for our joy and your glory! They are precious but You are overwhelmingly better than your gifts!

We saw new gifts in sweet memories this year...
We began a new tradition of making a bed of blankets and sleeping under the tree together on Christmas Eve. I got the space by Phin where I was half off the rug, half on...a bit uncomfortable but oh so worth the memory made. We woke up together and skyped with Paul's family while we opened their gifts. Did I mention both our families sent wrapped and ready gifts for us? We are so blessed. We talked with my parents and family. We enjoyed our gifts, ate a big breakfast and read books. It was snowing so beautifully outside. We relaxed and played the whole day and then enjoyed an all american dinner (King Ranch Chicken Casserole). Sang some carols, read a few stories and the night wound down. It was a good gift of a day here.

We also celebrated our first birthday in Asia - my sweet hubby's. It was fun and he got a crazy candle that opens up like a flower and has a "Happy Birthday" ring to it.


I am so thankful for a time of celebration this year. We are through our first set of holidays here in Asia and God's grace has been abundant!

May the New Year bring much more joy in You Father. May our lives reflect you more this year, may we faithfully plod and put to death and strive to treasure you most! May our hope be less in ourselves and more rooted in who You are.